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Gentle reflections on intimacy and health
This blog is a quiet space for people with barriers to achieving intimacy and self-worth in relationships. You’re welcome to read at your own pace, take what feels supportive, and leave the rest. Some topics may feel sensitive, but I’ll always approach them with care, consent and compassion.


You Do What?!? Why I became an intimacy coach
In today's fast-paced world, it is intriguing to consider how much of our daily thoughts revolve around the complex themes of sex, intimacy, and relationships. Research suggests that these topics occupy a significant percentage of our minds throughout the day, reflecting our innate human need for connection and belonging. As social beings, we are wired to seek out relationships and forge bonds with others, which are essential for our emotional and psychological well-being. Th

Shari
Jun 103 min read


Starting the Journey
Ah! there you are! Come on in. That's it - snuggle up in your blanket. Have a nice warm mug of tea. Take a deep breath. It’s okay; this is a safe place - it's just you and me and nobody else can hear us. We're going to go through this healing at your pace. Anytime you want to stop that’s okay. In fact, I want you to take this really, really slowly. And, at the end of a session, stop for a while. Digest it; notice what you're feeling. Give yourself some time and space before c

Shari
Jun 74 min read


Coaching Tips for Couples Facing Unique Intimacy Issues
Intimacy is a cornerstone of any romantic relationship, yet many couples encounter unique challenges that can hinder their connection. Whether it’s due to life changes, emotional barriers, or differing needs, navigating intimacy issues can be complex. In this blog post, we will explore practical coaching tips that can help couples strengthen their bond and overcome these challenges. Close-up view of a couple sitting together on a couch, engaged in a deep conversation Understa

Shari
Jun 44 min read


Building Trust in Relationships with Invisible Disabilities
Invisible disabilities can create unique challenges in relationships, often leading to misunderstandings and a lack of trust. These disabilities, which may include conditions such as chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromyalgia, mental health disorders, and more, are not immediately visible to others. This can make it difficult for partners, friends, and family members to understand the struggles faced by those living with these conditions. In this blog post, we will explore how to

Shari
Jun 44 min read


Navigating Intimacy with Chronic Health Challenges
Intimacy is a fundamental aspect of human relationships, yet it can become complicated when chronic health challenges enter the picture. Whether it’s a physical condition, mental health issue, or a combination of both, these challenges can significantly impact how individuals connect with their partners. Understanding how to navigate intimacy in the face of chronic health issues is essential for maintaining healthy relationships. Understanding Chronic Health Challenges Chroni

Shari
Jun 44 min read
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